OkCupid felt unique because you could send a message to some you really liked the look of which could help you stand out, now that is gone, and replaced by a paywall. Dating apps continue to get more superficial, based largely on first impression and appearance, and with paid features that take advantage of the most desperate.

Any introductions you receive will be visible in Discover (look for a 'They messaged you!' indicator). If someone has messaged you, we put them towards the top of your Discover queue so you won't miss them.

• I got a notification that I received an Intro, but my Intros tab is empty! That means the Intro is no longer on OkCupid OR that you have passed on the profile that sent you the intro. Your Intros tab will show all the new Intros you've received from accounts that are still active on OkCupid and who you have not yet passed on.
• Jun 29, 2021 However, on OkCupid (unlike other sites) you have the opportunity to send an introduction to someone before they've liked you. This means when they first see you, they'll see your full profile and your introduction at the same time, which is a great way to pique their interest. How to send that first introduction to someone: 1.
• An intro really is the same thing as a message. Guys that send me messages are almost guaranteed to get me to look at their profile, guys that don't are not. Most likely the only chance I'll encounter their profile is if I decide to use Doubletake and they happen to be before whoever sent me a message in the list. But given that OkCupid.

If you see an introduction from someone you're not interested in, Pass them and that message won't go to your conversations page. This way, your inbox isn't cluttered and you're only seeing conversations from people you're interested in. We do the sorting for you!

On the app

Tap on their Discover card to view their full profile. From there, you'll see the message they sent you right below their photos. Alternatively, 'Like' their profile and their intro will show up in your Conversations page.

On the web

On Discover, you'll see the message below the photos automatically; you can also click 'View Profile' to jump to their full profile, or 'Like' the profile to see the message on your Conversations page.

Replying to messages

As soon as you Like someone who has sent you an Intro, their message will move to your Conversations (the speech bubble icon on the app or website). You can also reply to the message right from their profile page!

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Frequently Asked Questions

I got a notification about a message but don't see it, what happened?

When someone sends you an introduction (a first message), it will appear on their profile and alongside their info on their profile card when using Discover. If you Like (heart) the profile, the intro will then move to your conversations.

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Your Conversations page will show all of the active conversations you're having: all messages from people you have Liked. (Messages from people you have not yet liked will be waiting for you to Like them on their profile or in DoubleTake)

If you're missing a conversation/match, one of the following reasons might be why:

• You may have blocked the other person
• The other person may have blocked you
• The other person may have deleted their account
• The other person may be in a moderation hold
• The other person may have been banned

For privacy reasons, we cannot tell you which of these will be the case.

Sometimes we put messages on hold while our admins review profiles/messages to make sure that they're being sent from a legitimate human account. We take the safety of our members very seriously and do a lot of moderation to weed out fake/scammer accounts, but unfortunately that means that real messages get caught in our filter nets as well occasionally. When that happens, we release the messages as soon as our team determines they're legitimate; at that point. If our team does not determine that the profile/messages are legitimate, we do ban the account.

You may have noticed something pretty exciting in your Likes tab on the app and the website:

An Intros tab! This is the place where you'll be able to easily see the people who have sent you an Intro message.

(as a reminder, an Intro is a first message from someone that you haven't Liked yet. Once you Like each other, it transforms into a Conversation and moves to the Conversations page)

If you're a paid member, you can see all of your Intros at once.

If you don't have a paid subscription, you'll see one Intro message at a time. You can visit the person's profile to see the full Intro they sent you. Like them to move them to the Conversations page, or Pass on them to see the next Intro.

FAQ:

For real?!
For real.

Will people who've sent me Intros still show up in Discover?
Yep! You'll still see people who've sent you Intros in Discover.

Will people who've sent me Intros still show up on my Who Likes You list?
Yep! If you're a paid member, you'll see people who've sent you Intros in both your Who Likes You and Intros pages.

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I got a notification that I received an Intro, but my Intros tab is empty!
That means the Intro is no longer on OkCupid OR that you have passed on the profile that sent you the intro. Your Intros tab will show all the new Intros you've received from accounts that are still active on OkCupid and who you have not yet passed on.

I am a long-time user, and I have a paid membership, and I've noticed something weird.
Well spotted! The Intros tab will show you all the Intros you've received since January 1st, 2018, and will continue to show you all the new Intros you receive from here on out. If someone sent you an Intro prior to 1/1/18, you'll still see them in your Who Likes You page with the Intro snippet.

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Not seeing the Intros feature on your account? Check out all-new SuperLikes here.